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Autonomous Proposals!

by PolarBearSims Posted 16th Mar 2017 at 5:46 PM - Updated Yesterday at 6:22 PM by PolarBearSims : Patch Update 6/19/18
245 Comments / replies (Who?) - 18 Feedback Posts, 3 Thanks Posts
Works with Patch 6/19/18 <--Changes were needed

PANDORA SIMS stole one of my mods! Please read spoiler to see what you can do!


There was an autonomous interactions mod created by weebl 101 but hasn't been updated since Jan 2016. Click HERE for their mod. I didn't want to go through updating the whole mod. I mostly hated the fact that my sim had to always do the proposing. Where's the surprise in that? Anyway I also absolutely hated that giddy interaction that always took place after an acceptance of the proposal.

Want to see all my mods? Click HERE
Autonomous Kiss
Teen/Adult Romance has been moved to HERE

I don't mind if you make changes to any of these files in any of my mods as long as it is PERSONAL USE ONLY
Continue Reading:
Full Polygamy if you include my Autonomous Weddings found HERE

Last Update: 6/24/18<--Check for new addons or changes!
Always remove old files and replace with new!

A special THANK YOU!!! to Scumbumbo for telling me how to create new XML's to add to the game. With out this knowledge, I would not of been able to create a file for No Polygamy.

A special THANK YOU goes out to fellow simmer: jjrmich<--Thank you for your suggestions and help towards getting this mod to do these interactions more autonomously and during appropriate conversations.

A request came through earlier for breakups and gave me ideas so I went for it! Thank you for the request fellow simmer: katiardguez!

What this mod offers:
This will also show any new ideas I may be working on for future updates.
  • No Polygamy Proposal Option
  • Autonomous Proposals
  • Autonomous Breakups & Divorces
  • No restrictions on marriage
  • Polygamous relationships
  • NPC's proposing
  • An option to have relationships with no restrictions or relationship gain
  • Have proposing with or with out the giddy interactions.
  • Personality for Proposals
Proposal Dialog Box<--Please read IMPORTANT~This is a WIP

WIP!<--How this mod works. Please read


Common Questions:

Add-On's<--Can be added to any of the flavors listed below:

NEW! No Polygamy

Break Ups

I created more flavors. That way you have the option for your way of playing.
Flavors:<--ONLY USE ONE FLAVOR! There WILL be a conflict since some change the interactions and others do not.

Do not reupload modified from my original or not and claim it as your own!
Do not post on another site with out permission.


Will not conflict with any of my other mods.

Any other mod that modifies the same XML code will conflict!

Here is the XML codes that was modified:
[Spoiler]
S4_E882D22F_00000000_000000000000661B
S4_E882D22F_00000000_00000000000211AA
S4_E882D22F_00000000_0000000000006614
S4_E882D22F_00000000_0000000000006615
S4_E882D22F_00000000_0000000000006611
S4_E882D22F_00000000_0000000000006612
S4_7DF2169C_00000000_00000000000189B6

Thank you for all of your support!
~ENJOY~ <---I know I will!

Additional Credits:
Notepad++
S4pe

You must have the expansion, game version or stuff packs listed below installed to use this custom content. Please see the post text for any exceptions.

Sims 4
Built with Game Version: 1.27.80.10
Key: - File was updated after upload was posted
Filename - Tip: You can click the magnifying glass to see the archive contents Size Downloads Date
No Romance Proposals W Original Interactions.zip 40.4 KB 2,733 Yesterday
No Romance Proposals.zip 40.4 KB 2,808 Yesterday
Autonomous Proposals w Original Interactions by Polarbearsims.zip 41.0 KB 4,923 Yesterday
Autonomous Breakups!.zip 19.4 KB 4,276 Yesterday
Autonomous Proposals.zip 40.7 KB 6,875 Yesterday
NoPolygamy.zip 779 Bytes 1,015 2nd Apr 2018
Don't forget to Thank the creator after downloading! Use the Thanks button located above the screenshots above.
Basic Download and Install Instructions:

1. Download: Click the download link to save the .rar or .zip file(s) to your computer.

2. Extract: Use 7zip (recommended), WinRAR (Windows) or Stuffit (OS X) to extract the file(s) from the .rar or .zip file(s). OS X also has a built-in utility for that (just rightclick).

3. Put into your Mods Folder

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Scholar
Original Poster
#226 Old 19th May 2018 at 6:36 PM
UPDATE:

05/19/18 Change Log:
ADDED: Pop Up Dialog box to ask the user if they would like to accept a proposal.<--WIP
FIXED: Breakups should appear when a relationship reaches Romantic Interests or lower.

Please read the Dialog Box Spoiler in the description for more info.

Breakups are strongly based on the relationship panel in the game. If it doesn't say romantic interest or lower or still says love birds even if they are in the romantic red this option may not work properly. I'm still working on getting this more reliable. The relationship panel not updating properly isn't because of this mod but is in the game itself. I apologize for any inconvenience.

Thank you for all of your support!

~ENJOY~

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

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Test Subject
THANKS POST
#227 Old 27th May 2018 at 6:56 AM Last edited by sonianotte : 27th May 2018 at 7:22 AM.
For autonomous breakups, my sim has been asking people to just be friends autonomously when they have only just met the other person. There's no mood or trait issue. Sometimes it's right after an introduction. How awkward.

EDIT: I should note that I am playing with a pre-release build of MCCC, which may have some settings the public release doesn't have.
Scholar
Original Poster
#228 Old 27th May 2018 at 3:10 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by sonianotte
For autonomous breakups, my sim has been asking people to just be friends autonomously when they have only just met the other person. There's no mood or trait issue. Sometimes it's right after an introduction. How awkward.

EDIT: I should note that I am playing with a pre-release build of MCCC, which may have some settings the public release doesn't have.


I can check on it but it shouldn't be there if they aren't romantic.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#229 Old 27th May 2018 at 4:02 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by sonianotte
For autonomous breakups, my sim has been asking people to just be friends autonomously when they have only just met the other person. There's no mood or trait issue. Sometimes it's right after an introduction. How awkward.

EDIT: I should note that I am playing with a pre-release build of MCCC, which may have some settings the public release doesn't have.



I can confirm this issue. My sims break up with every sim they talked to, even with family members, without any romantic interactions.

Could it be that Autonomous Break-ups and Personality Please trigger each other? I have both, I don't talk about compability just that maybe some adjustments in Personality Please are reasonable for the many break-ups. Cause sometimes it's right after the introduction and sometimes it takes a while. They talk a while and suddenly I get the Break-up Message, really weird.
Scholar
Original Poster
#230 Old 27th May 2018 at 6:07 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Jevi
I can confirm this issue. My sims break up with every sim they talked to, even with family members, without any romantic interactions.

Could it be that Autonomous Break-ups and Personality Please trigger each other? I have both, I don't talk about compability just that maybe some adjustments in Personality Please are reasonable for the many break-ups. Cause sometimes it's right after the introduction and sometimes it takes a while. They talk a while and suddenly I get the Break-up Message, really weird.


Personality please doesn't have any break up or proposal interactions. As soon as I have time to update my game I will get it checked.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#231 Old 27th May 2018 at 6:43 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by PolarBearSims
Personality please doesn't have any break up or proposal interactions. As soon as I have time to update my game I will get it checked.


I know, that's not what I wanted to say. But Personality Please keeps the conversation going, right? Break-ups are a mischievious interaction, so maybe that's where the two got together?
No offence at all, and I'm not a modder just a player. So this are just my few thoughts.
Scholar
Original Poster
#232 Old 27th May 2018 at 8:02 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Jevi
I know, that's not what I wanted to say. But Personality Please keeps the conversation going, right? Break-ups are a mischievious interaction, so maybe that's where the two got together?
No offence at all, and I'm not a modder just a player. So this are just my few thoughts.


It's ok. Yes personality please is set up the same as the break ups and proposals. However, the game itself has it so only certain relationship status only shows the ask to be friends that's why it's odd that it's appearing when they just met. Just to double check, have you tested this with no other mods? That includes testing with out mccc This wouldn't be the first time a patch did something screwy with the break ups of this mod. Hopefully I can get my game updated today and start checking.

EDIT: Also, how are the other break ups doing, the break up and divorce? I haven't really played the game lately and since I hadn't updated my game yet I was just wondering if those are okay or if they are having issues as well. Thanks.

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Field Researcher
THANKS POST
#233 Old 28th May 2018 at 4:09 AM
I had to remove autonomous breakups & autonomous proposals because they were causing my game to hang. The last working version for me was when they were both in one package.
Scholar
Original Poster
#234 Old 28th May 2018 at 4:43 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by drinkmorecocoa
I had to remove autonomous breakups & autonomous proposals because they were causing my game to hang. The last working version for me was when they were both in one package.


I have not experienced any lagging with the mod in. I'm sorry this was happening. When they were separated, there wasn't any changes made to them.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#235 Old 30th May 2018 at 10:32 PM
I'm having the same issue with the "ask to be friends" applying to everyone. I have both your break up and autonomous proposal. The break up version is causing all my sims to ask to be friends randomly to EVERYONE, even family members. It gets annoying when your trying to build relationships. I had to take the "break up" version out unfortunately. It used to work fine, idk what is happening. The autonomous proposal is working perfectly!!
Test Subject
#236 Old 31st May 2018 at 12:05 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by PolarBearSims
It's ok. Yes personality please is set up the same as the break ups and proposals. However, the game itself has it so only certain relationship status only shows the ask to be friends that's why it's odd that it's appearing when they just met. Just to double check, have you tested this with no other mods? That includes testing with out mccc This wouldn't be the first time a patch did something screwy with the break ups of this mod. Hopefully I can get my game updated today and start checking.

EDIT: Also, how are the other break ups doing, the break up and divorce? I haven't really played the game lately and since I hadn't updated my game yet I was just wondering if those are okay or if they are having issues as well. Thanks.

Not who you replied to, but personally the others are working fine. It's just the initial stages that appear broken. Once they've actually built a romantic relationship everything is fine. (Unless nothing happening after means it's not fine? That or my sims are happy.)
Scholar
Original Poster
#237 Old 31st May 2018 at 12:47 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by sonianotte
Not who you replied to, but personally the others are working fine. It's just the initial stages that appear broken. Once they've actually built a romantic relationship everything is fine. (Unless nothing happening after means it's not fine? That or my sims are happy.)


Thank you. It could also be set to sensitive and happening when it isn't appropriate so I'll make some adjustments there as well. Thank you for letting me know.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#238 Unread 19th Jun 2018 at 4:27 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by PolarBearSims
Thank you. It could also be set to sensitive and happening when it isn't appropriate so I'll make some adjustments there as well. Thank you for letting me know.


Can also confirm the random 'ask to be friends' interaction. My two children sims who are brother and sister are doing it to each other, and while it does not affect game play or relationships in any way, it feels a bit uncomfortable aha :s It started after Seasons patch. Hopefully you are able to identify what is causing it soon
Test Subject
#239 Unread Yesterday at 6:30 AM
Can we disable the dialogue pop up?
Scholar
Original Poster
#240 Unread Yesterday at 1:20 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Horni4Elves
Can we disable the dialogue pop up?


The dialog pop up was the biggest request with this mod. With this being a tuning mod, either the mod has it, or it doesn't.

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Test Subject
#241 Unread Yesterday at 3:57 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by mistress_overlord
Can also confirm the random 'ask to be friends' interaction. My two children sims who are brother and sister are doing it to each other, and while it does not affect game play or relationships in any way, it feels a bit uncomfortable aha :s It started after Seasons patch. Hopefully you are able to identify what is causing it soon


Can also confirm it's happening! My parent sim randomly said this to a child he'd never met before LOL, and many sims without romantic relationships seem to be saying it to each other.
Scholar
Original Poster
#242 Unread Yesterday at 6:24 PM
UPDATE:

6/24/18 Change Log:
Patch Update: 6/19/18
FIXED: Children should not be asking to just be friends anymore or any other sim to a stranger. I did some tests and it was working as it's intended.
REMOVED: Proposal Dialog pop up. I had to remove this because the custom strings are not working. I'm not an expert with strings so I'm not sure what is wrong. Once I figure it out I will put the dialog box back in.

I apologize for not being able to fix the dialog box as I know majority of you all requested this. I promise, if I can get it working again I will add it back in.

Thank you for your patience and all of your support!

~ENJOY~

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#243 Unread Yesterday at 11:11 PM
Thank you so much for updating this mod
Lab Assistant
THANKS POST
#244 Unread Today at 1:49 AM
Thanks for getting it up and running again! Another must-have mod.
Test Subject
#245 Unread Today at 3:17 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by PolarBearSims
UPDATE:

6/24/18 Change Log:
Patch Update: 6/19/18
FIXED: Children should not be asking to just be friends anymore or any other sim to a stranger. I did some tests and it was working as it's intended.
REMOVED: Proposal Dialog pop up. I had to remove this because the custom strings are not working. I'm not an expert with strings so I'm not sure what is wrong. Once I figure it out I will put the dialog box back in.

I apologize for not being able to fix the dialog box as I know majority of you all requested this. I promise, if I can get it working again I will add it back in.

Thank you for your patience and all of your support!

~ENJOY~


Thank you PolarBearSims!
Test Subject
#246 Unread Today at 3:43 AM
Hi! I had a look at the code for Autonomous Breakups, and if "Ask to be Friends" is happening too often (it was in my game), this might help? "Ask to be Friends" was changed to a Mean interaction, and the traits were adjusted accordingly... but the autonomy of the interaction is still "Friendly", as in this line:

Code:
<T n="test_set_reference">31094<!--TestSetInstance: testSet_FriendlySocialsAutonomous--></T>


It may help to change it to:

Code:
<T n="test_set_reference">27920<!--TestSetInstance: testSet_MeanSocialsAutonomous--></T>
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