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Autonomous Proposals!

by PolarBearSims Posted 16th Mar 2017 at 5:46 PM - Updated 4th Apr 2018 at 6:30 PM by PolarBearSims : Mod Update 2/23/18
224 Comments / replies (Who?) - 23 Feedback Posts, 2 Thanks Posts
Works with Patch 3/20/18 <--No Changes were needed

PANDORA SIMS stole one of my mods! Please read spoiler to see what you can do!


There was an autonomous interactions mod created by weebl 101 but hasn't been updated since Jan 2016. Click HERE for their mod. I didn't want to go through updating the whole mod. I mostly hated the fact that my sim had to always do the proposing. Where's the surprise in that? Anyway I also absolutely hated that giddy interaction that always took place after an acceptance of the proposal.

Want to see all my mods? Click HERE
Autonomous Kiss
Teen/Adult Romance has been moved to HERE

I don't mind if you make changes to any of these files in any of my mods as long as it is PERSONAL USE ONLY
Continue Reading:
Full Polygamy if you include my Autonomous Weddings found HERE

Last Update: 04/1/18<--Check for new addons or changes!
Always remove old files and replace with new!

A special THANK YOU!!! to Scumbumbo for telling me how to create new XML's to add to the game. With out this knowledge, I would not of been able to create a file for No Polygamy.

A special THANK YOU goes out to fellow simmer: jjrmich<--Thank you for your suggestions and help towards getting this mod to do these interactions more autonomously and during appropriate conversations.

A request came through earlier for breakups and gave me ideas so I went for it! Thank you for the request fellow simmer: katiardguez!

What this mod offers:
This will also show any new ideas I may be working on for future updates.
  • A dialog box to ask you if you want your sim to accept proposals!~COMING SOON!!!
  • NEW! No Polygamy Proposal Option
  • Autonomous Proposals
  • Autonomous Breakups & Divorces
  • No restrictions on marriage
  • Polygamous relationships
  • NPC's proposing
  • An option to have relationships with no restrictions or relationship gain
  • Have proposing with or with out the giddy interactions.
  • Personality for Proposals
WIP!<--How this mod works. Please read


Common Questions:

Add-On's<--Can be added to any of the flavors listed below:

NEW! No Polygamy

Break Ups

I created more flavors. That way you have the option for your way of playing.
Flavors:<--ONLY USE ONE FLAVOR! There WILL be a conflict since some change the interactions and others do not.

Do not reupload modified from my original or not and claim it as your own!
Do not post on another site with out permission.


Will not conflict with any of my other mods.

Any other mod that modifies the same XML code will conflict!

Here is the XML codes that was modified:
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Thank you for all of your support!
~ENJOY~ <---I know I will!

Additional Credits:
Notepad++
S4pe

You must have the expansion, game version or stuff packs listed below installed to use this custom content. Please see the post text for any exceptions.

Sims 4
Built with Game Version: 1.27.80.10
Key: - File was updated after upload was posted
Filename - Tip: You can click the magnifying glass to see the archive contents Size Downloads Date
No Romance Proposals W Original Interactions.zip 35.6 KB 2,056 2nd Apr 2018
No Romance Proposals.zip 37.6 KB 2,229 2nd Apr 2018
Autonomous Proposals w Original Interactions by Polarbearsims.zip 38.2 KB 3,103 2nd Apr 2018
Autonomous Breakups!.zip 18.8 KB 2,246 24th Feb 2018
Autonomous Proposals.zip 38.2 KB 4,474 2nd Apr 2018
NoPolygamy.zip 779 Bytes 238 2nd Apr 2018
Don't forget to Thank the creator after downloading! Use the Thanks button located above the screenshots above.
Basic Download and Install Instructions:

1. Download: Click the download link to save the .rar or .zip file(s) to your computer.

2. Extract: Use 7zip (recommended), WinRAR (Windows) or Stuffit (OS X) to extract the file(s) from the .rar or .zip file(s). OS X also has a built-in utility for that (just rightclick).

3. Put into your Mods Folder

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Test Subject
#201 Old 25th Jan 2018 at 4:54 AM
Not working
I don't know if the mod is working, I have maxed out friends and romance, and made him very flirty and have a steamy conversation but he is not proposing to me. Maybe the next update can you do something about that.
Test Subject
#202 Old 25th Jan 2018 at 6:18 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by NewbieFamily
I don't know if the mod is working, I have maxed out friends and romance, and made him very flirty and have a steamy conversation but he is not proposing to me. Maybe the next update can you do something about that.


Dw it took him a couple weeks to pop the question. Love it Thanks
Scholar
Original Poster
#203 Old 25th Jan 2018 at 1:54 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by NewbieFamily
Dw it took him a couple weeks to pop the question. Love it Thanks


Your welcome! Glad it's working for you

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*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#204 Old 31st Jan 2018 at 2:06 AM
Sad that Sims seems to randomly break up and stuff. I was on a date with my vampire GF and she out of nowhere asked me a question it had the evil icon and I panicked. Rightfully so too as our relationship just got nuked. She apparently broke up with me! Now other Sims are just on a Heartbreak Fever run! Sadly had to get rid of the mod.
Scholar
Original Poster
#205 Old 31st Jan 2018 at 5:48 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Horni4Elves
Sad that Sims seems to randomly break up and stuff. I was on a date with my vampire GF and she out of nowhere asked me a question it had the evil icon and I panicked. Rightfully so too as our relationship just got nuked. She apparently broke up with me! Now other Sims are just on a Heartbreak Fever run! Sadly had to get rid of the mod.


Sorry to hear that. It's not supposed to even show up in the pie menu if they have a high romance levels. Good conversations shouldn't trigger it either. Could you explain more on the relationship and what was happening? Traits do have a say on if interactions happen, what was her traits? I can do some checking on the settings. This is the first I've heard of it happening like that and since it wasn't happening inappropriately in my game I figured the settings were good. Thank you for saying something, never know something may not be working right. Patches seem to mess this mod up.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Lab Assistant
THANKS POST
#206 Old 7th Feb 2018 at 4:24 AM
I love this mod! Though I do wish there was a version without the autonomous breakups, I don't want them to break up, just want him to propose.Still an awesome mod.
Scholar
Original Poster
#207 Old 7th Feb 2018 at 4:53 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by springfairy556
I love this mod! Though I do wish there was a version without the autonomous breakups, I don't want them to break up, just want him to propose.Still an awesome mod.


Thank You! Glad you enjoy it. There is a version with out break ups. Just says autononous proposals

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Scholar
Original Poster
#208 Old 24th Feb 2018 at 1:56 AM
UPDATE:

02/23/18 Change Log:
ADDED: New traits and category tags were added for the Jungle Adventure pack. These are not required for the mod to work, I just added them for those who purchase the pack.

Thank you for all of your support!

~ENJOY~

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Scholar
Original Poster
#209 Old 2nd Apr 2018 at 2:24 AM
UPDATE:

04/1/18 Change Log:
REQUESTED: No Polygamy read spoiler for details
REMOVED: The packs that combined break ups. I did this to help eliminate extra files in the download page and for less when it comes to updating.

A special THANK YOU!!! goes out to Scumbumbo for telling me how to add in new XML's into the game. With out this, I would not of been able to create a new XML for No Polygamy.

Thank you for all of your support!

~ENJOY~

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Lab Assistant
#210 Old 2nd Apr 2018 at 6:15 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by PolarBearSims
UPDATE:

04/1/18 Change Log:
REQUESTED: No Polygamy read spoiler for details
REMOVED: The packs that combined break ups. I did this to help eliminate extra files in the download page and for less when it comes to updating.

A special THANK YOU!!! goes out to Scumbumbo for telling me how to add in new XML's into the game. With out this, I would not of been able to create a new XML for No Polygamy.

Thank you for all of your support!

~ENJOY~


A Doubt: Can i use autonomous proposals and autonomous breakups or i have to choice only one flavor? Because you removed packs that combined breakups with proposals but i want both working in my game!
And about no polygamy i can use together too?
Scholar
Original Poster
#211 Old 2nd Apr 2018 at 2:01 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by guedespoa
A Doubt: Can i use autonomous proposals and autonomous breakups or i have to choice only one flavor? Because you removed packs that combined breakups with proposals but i want both working in my game!
And about no polygamy i can use together too?


Break ups work with any of the proposals. The no polygamy also works with any proposals. There shouldn't be any conflicts with the no polygamy since it's a new code.

I removed the combination files bc they aren't really necessary and bc of the extras when it come to updating. Less confusing for others as well.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#212 Old 4th Apr 2018 at 2:03 AM
Hello. I used to download the flavour Auto Proposals & Breakups with Original interactions by PBS. And I noticed that the updated flavours are either Proposals or Break ups. I may have missed out something? Which is the flavour to download if I want both Auto Proposals & Break ups with Original Interactions?
Scholar
Original Poster
#213 Old 4th Apr 2018 at 2:09 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by jorene
Hello. I used to download the flavour Auto Proposals & Breakups with Original interactions by PBS. And I noticed that the updated flavours are either Proposals or Break ups. I may have missed out something? Which is the flavour to download if I want both Auto Proposals & Break ups with Original Interactions?


I apologize for any confusion, all you have to do now is choose which proposal flavor you want and download the break ups. It just got to be a lot having all the different flavors.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#214 Old 4th Apr 2018 at 3:12 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by PolarBearSims
I apologize for any confusion, all you have to do now is choose which proposal flavor you want and download the break ups. It just got to be a lot having all the different flavors.


Ah, I got confused as it was stated download 1 flavour only. Thanks for clearing that up!
Scholar
Original Poster
#215 Old 4th Apr 2018 at 5:25 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by jorene
Ah, I got confused as it was stated download 1 flavour only. Thanks for clearing that up!


No problem I went in and updated that portion of the description. Hope that helps

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#216 Old 9th Apr 2018 at 7:10 AM
I'm a bit confused - the description of this mod says that Sims will also autonomously ask to be boyfriend/girlfriend, but this is not really mentioned anywhere else... or does "proposal" refer to both marriage proposals and going steady proposals? So does this mod also add autonomous ask boyfriend/girlfriend or only actual marriage proposals? Also, am a bit stupid lol but does "original interactions" refer to normal EA animations or no? If I want to download the proposal mod with normal EA animations, which one should I choose? Thanks in advance for your response!
Scholar
Original Poster
#217 Old 9th Apr 2018 at 12:16 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Figaro
I'm a bit confused - the description of this mod says that Sims will also autonomously ask to be boyfriend/girlfriend, but this is not really mentioned anywhere else... or does "proposal" refer to both marriage proposals and going steady proposals? So does this mod also add autonomous ask boyfriend/girlfriend or only actual marriage proposals? Also, am a bit stupid lol but does "original interactions" refer to normal EA animations or no? If I want to download the proposal mod with normal EA animations, which one should I choose? Thanks in advance for your response!


Yes, this is for all proposals; promise rings, marriage and bf/gf. Any flavir that says original interactions means EAs animations for those interactions. Any others will have different animations.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#218 Old 11th Apr 2018 at 4:53 AM Last edited by Figaro : 11th Apr 2018 at 7:20 AM.
Thanks for the reply! I downloaded the mod and am so happy it exists... only my Sim just completely out of the blue asked this girl he's seeing to just be friends. They were having a nice conversation (pretty sure it was even suggestive or amorous as they were flirting), their romance bar was definitely higher than sweethearts I'm very, very sure, and he was in a Dazed mood which I personally wouldn't count as a mood that'd cause you to randomly break up with someone. Was kinda upset over this and didn't agree with it lol so luckily I have MCCC to just change the relationship back to sweethearts immediately, but just wanted to report it as I'm not sure if that's supposed to work like that - if it does, I might have to put it out again as I don't want any romance that's about 3/4th filled to randomly end like that when the Sims aren't even having a fight or a bad conversation at all, hehe.

Edit: Well, his actual boyfriend also just asked him to be friends with a relationship that was definitely higher than romantic interests and sweethearts. In their case I didn't mind as much because he was cheating, hehe, but I'm still not entirely sure whether I like this in general. Again, they were not having a bad conversation at all, their romance bar was very high, and though the other dude was uncomfortable that really was the only factor weighing in there. Here's a pic of that situation:
Scholar
Original Poster
#219 Old 11th Apr 2018 at 12:14 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Figaro
Thanks for the reply! I downloaded the mod and am so happy it exists... only my Sim just completely out of the blue asked this girl he's seeing to just be friends. They were having a nice conversation (pretty sure it was even suggestive or amorous as they were flirting), their romance bar was definitely higher than sweethearts I'm very, very sure, and he was in a Dazed mood which I personally wouldn't count as a mood that'd cause you to randomly break up with someone. Was kinda upset over this and didn't agree with it lol so luckily I have MCCC to just change the relationship back to sweethearts immediately, but just wanted to report it as I'm not sure if that's supposed to work like that - if it does, I might have to put it out again as I don't want any romance that's about 3/4th filled to randomly end like that when the Sims aren't even having a fight or a bad conversation at all, hehe.

Edit: Well, his actual boyfriend also just asked him to be friends with a relationship that was definitely higher than romantic interests and sweethearts. In their case I didn't mind as much because he was cheating, hehe, but I'm still not entirely sure whether I like this in general. Again, they were not having a bad conversation at all, their romance bar was very high, and though the other dude was uncomfortable that really was the only factor weighing in there. Here's a pic of that situation:


Thank you for the report. I have also recently noticed this as well. The mod currently doesn't go by the romance bar but off of the relationship it shows in the friend panel. Sims who are just sweethearts could break up and I've noticed that the friend panel isn't listing them as higher than sweethearts even when the romance bar is full. That is probably a game glitch so I'm going to have to make some adjustments to the mod bc it's not supposed to even be available if the romance bar is full. I'm currently working on some adjuayemts to the breakups so I will rework that part in the next release.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#220 Old 12th Apr 2018 at 8:34 PM
There is an interesting interaction in Vampire pack, if you become friends with one of them they ask you to come over and propose to turn you. I like the opportunity of ansering "no". So i'm wondering is there any chance of turning this script into a marrige proposal with ability to say "no"? It would be great!
Scholar
Original Poster
#221 Old 12th Apr 2018 at 9:25 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Frizza
There is an interesting interaction in Vampire pack, if you become friends with one of them they ask you to come over and propose to turn you. I like the opportunity of ansering "no". So i'm wondering is there any chance of turning this script into a marrige proposal with ability to say "no"? It would be great!


Yes a dialog box is going to be added soon as soon as I'm comfortable with it without any bugs it will get released.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#222 Old 15th Apr 2018 at 12:52 PM
Hi,

I love that this mod exists because I was so annoyed with always having to ask NPC sims to be my partner/to marry me.

However, I am a little confused about the difference between no romance proposals and autonomous proposals. As far as I can gather from your explanation on your page, I can only have one installed so that they don't conflict. I don't really understand what the no romance proposals do. Does it mean there will still be autonomous proposals but the sims have to have a high enough friendship and romance level as opposed to just random proposals with the autonomous proposals?

Sorry if this question has been asked before.
Scholar
Original Poster
#223 Old 15th Apr 2018 at 3:05 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by mistress_overlord
Hi,

I love that this mod exists because I was so annoyed with always having to ask NPC sims to be my partner/to marry me.

However, I am a little confused about the difference between no romance proposals and autonomous proposals. As far as I can gather from your explanation on your page, I can only have one installed so that they don't conflict. I don't really understand what the no romance proposals do. Does it mean there will still be autonomous proposals but the sims have to have a high enough friendship and romance level as opposed to just random proposals with the autonomous proposals?

Sorry if this question has been asked before.


No romance proposal means sims can propose as soon as they meet a sim. It also mneans there will be no romance bar gain with the proposal. Rejects can still happen.

The other means they have to have a high enough romance bar to propose and will gain some romance bar.

**********If you like my builds, mods or videos you can support me at Patreon! **********

*****Thank you for all of your support!*****
Test Subject
#224 Old 16th Apr 2018 at 4:23 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by PolarBearSims
No romance proposal means sims can propose as soon as they meet a sim. It also mneans there will be no romance bar gain with the proposal. Rejects can still happen.

The other means they have to have a high enough romance bar to propose and will gain some romance bar.


Oh I see. I had them around the wrong way. Thanks so much for the response
Field Researcher
THANKS POST
#225 Old Yesterday at 11:39 PM
I love this mod, really is essential for the game. It reminds of how sims 2 worked with the surprise proposals and so on. Thank you! You make the game so more enjoyable. If I can help with the updating or anything really just tell!
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