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#276
10th Apr 2016 at 1:44 PM
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@MystAngel, I'm surprised. I too have depression and anxiety, but I still don't feel like I've changed (unless I look in the mirror, that is). At least not since I was 20 or so. Some of my hobbies changed, some of my general believes about people, but overall it's been the same. As for hobbies, I think I had more mature hobbies in the past, like, I was studying philosophy for my own enjoyment, but then I came back to gaming and fanfiction, after a big break. Most of my hobbies cycle with time, there's no hobby that is continuous. There are some that got forever left behind, though, like programming and playing shooters.
Depression doesn't make my soul feel older, it makes me feel like only my body is "old". Because of total lack of energy, the kind of effort it takes to do everything, like write this post. It makes one feel like a fossil. But internally it's different, sometimes I feel like I'm still a child. However, I should note that by "a child" I do not mean someone full of energy, I'm talking about someone who is naive, fragile and defenseless. I was like that as a child, and I still feel like that. I wish I could feel my age and be confident like other 31year olds are. But I'm driven by fear (people call it anxiety, but I call it fear), and fear and insecurity is something that only a child or young teens are allowed to experience in our society, so I feel like a perpetual young teen who still can't grow up...
That happened to me, too. I had a great friend for 10 years, and now I can't speak to him anymore, it's too disappointing. It's still ok for him, but I can't stand how he talks and his topics, I've outgrown all that. We got acquainted when we were both into philosophy and esoteric topics, now I think all of that is meaningless abstract ruminations, and I can't listen to him doing it.
But still it doesn't make me feel any older. It just makes me feel.. smarter? Like I've realized that such meaningless chatter isn't really smart, and it's more meaningful to be down-to-earth.
Depression doesn't make my soul feel older, it makes me feel like only my body is "old". Because of total lack of energy, the kind of effort it takes to do everything, like write this post. It makes one feel like a fossil. But internally it's different, sometimes I feel like I'm still a child. However, I should note that by "a child" I do not mean someone full of energy, I'm talking about someone who is naive, fragile and defenseless. I was like that as a child, and I still feel like that. I wish I could feel my age and be confident like other 31year olds are. But I'm driven by fear (people call it anxiety, but I call it fear), and fear and insecurity is something that only a child or young teens are allowed to experience in our society, so I feel like a perpetual young teen who still can't grow up...
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It did happen to me to sometimes outgrow, not only some of my interests, beliefs, or habits, but also "outgrow" certain relationships, or people. Since everyone changes with his own pace, following his own evolving path, it happens to people to simply grow apart, despite once being in the same time and place. That is also natural, just the way aging is... |
That happened to me, too. I had a great friend for 10 years, and now I can't speak to him anymore, it's too disappointing. It's still ok for him, but I can't stand how he talks and his topics, I've outgrown all that. We got acquainted when we were both into philosophy and esoteric topics, now I think all of that is meaningless abstract ruminations, and I can't listen to him doing it.
But still it doesn't make me feel any older. It just makes me feel.. smarter? Like I've realized that such meaningless chatter isn't really smart, and it's more meaningful to be down-to-earth.
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#277
10th Apr 2016 at 1:58 PM
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I, on the other hand, tell anyone who wants to listen about Sims 2 - maybe that reflects my age If they do not like that - I simply do not care
And around we will be, I think, for a while longer - and as the circle rotates, one day Sims2Christain will be the elder on the forum and think back to us discussing age (and hopefully remember us with a smile and toast us for having been here once )
And around we will be, I think, for a while longer - and as the circle rotates, one day Sims2Christain will be the elder on the forum and think back to us discussing age (and hopefully remember us with a smile and toast us for having been here once )
#278
11th Apr 2016 at 7:58 AM
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@Babahara
I'll put my response regarding depression in a spoiler, to avoid overloading the thread. Also, some people might prefer to keep this topic more lighthearted. I'm aware that games forum is not exactly a place where people want to read stuff like this.
I can totally identify and painfully understand lack of energy you're talking about, and that feeling of heaviness of the body. People who were never depressed, often can't even imagine how deep can this condition reach and how can it affect even basic functionality. Sometimes, you're feeling so bad, that it is hard to even move, take a bath, get dressed, eat, generally take proper care of yourself. Not to mention concentrate for long periods of time, and carry out all the duties. Your body is heavy, your mind is hazy, your soul is literally aching. When the worst episode comes, you can't even get out of the bed, you can't stand sunlight, noise, or people around you, you just wish to stay in darkness of your room, suffer, cry, hate yourself, wishing to vanish from this world forever. Even on good days, people prone to depression generally tend to be less physically active, since everything is harder, everything is slower, like you said, everything requires more effort. We second-guess everything, it's so easy to feel guilty, insecure and hurt. We have to work really, really hard to find meaning in life, and just keep it going. And don't get me started on anxiety, or insomnia. We're vulnerable, always worrying, like something bad is just about to happen, every minute now. Sometimes you sit up all night awake, desperately waiting for a down, to be able to call the loved ones and see if they're all alive and well. If they don't pick up the phone, unwanted thoughts bomb you "Please, oh, please, just be alive"; if your cat sneezes, you immediately take her to a vet. -That's what hypersensitivity does. Every loss you experience, every wound you get, leaves a deep scar and takes double time and effort to make it heal and rejuvenate. And that's why you're terrified of new ones. Sometimes, I feel like all that pain and sorrow made me so scarred and deformed inside, that I'll never completely recover. I hope I explained better why I said I feel aged, and how I connected the feeling to my condition.
It gets better with medications and therapy. Finding the right combination is essential to keep you stable, but you have to choose a psychiatrist carefully. He has to be really competent. I prefer one educated both in biological psychiatry and psychotherapy (preferably, certified psychotherapist). And he has to be willing to experiment, because sometimes treatment doesn't work, it takes time and skill to adjust. It helps if the doctor stays updated with latest researches and doesn't use outdated methods. He also has to know how to approach you, especially if you're hypersensitive and socially anxious, so he must earn your trust. Mine is a college professor with Ph.D in biological psychiatry and cognitive therapy as a chosen therapy method, and I'm really satisfied with him. Researching your condition also helps, because you have to be able to recognize the symptoms, and realize what (and how) can you do to help yourself, and what (and when) you can't. It's better if you avoid popular psychology advice, or so called "self-help", because it can lead to self-deception. It's always better if you let a qualified, educated person evaluate your condition and help you with concrete carefully chosen advice and therapy. At least, such is my experience.
Then I would've bored you to death. I don't consider philosophy meaningless, always was attracted to it, when I was younger as well. What I've noticed changed the most, are philosophical movements that interest me most. I'm talking about serious, documented, educational philosophy, not quasi-philosophy (also not a fan of new-age or esotericism). But I agree, most of it is abstract and not existentially applicable. You're absolutely right about being down-to-earth as the smartest approach to solving problems, and that is what science is for. Concretely, for problems we both share, it is a lot more useful to turn to medicine, psychiatry and psychology, than it is trying to apply classical philosophy on it. I do have a soft spot for humanistic sciences and read lots of it, but I hope I know how to make a difference between academic and practical interest.
I'm sorry for a lengthy post, but I thought you deserved a proper explanation.
I'll put my response regarding depression in a spoiler, to avoid overloading the thread. Also, some people might prefer to keep this topic more lighthearted. I'm aware that games forum is not exactly a place where people want to read stuff like this.
I can totally identify and painfully understand lack of energy you're talking about, and that feeling of heaviness of the body. People who were never depressed, often can't even imagine how deep can this condition reach and how can it affect even basic functionality. Sometimes, you're feeling so bad, that it is hard to even move, take a bath, get dressed, eat, generally take proper care of yourself. Not to mention concentrate for long periods of time, and carry out all the duties. Your body is heavy, your mind is hazy, your soul is literally aching. When the worst episode comes, you can't even get out of the bed, you can't stand sunlight, noise, or people around you, you just wish to stay in darkness of your room, suffer, cry, hate yourself, wishing to vanish from this world forever. Even on good days, people prone to depression generally tend to be less physically active, since everything is harder, everything is slower, like you said, everything requires more effort. We second-guess everything, it's so easy to feel guilty, insecure and hurt. We have to work really, really hard to find meaning in life, and just keep it going. And don't get me started on anxiety, or insomnia. We're vulnerable, always worrying, like something bad is just about to happen, every minute now. Sometimes you sit up all night awake, desperately waiting for a down, to be able to call the loved ones and see if they're all alive and well. If they don't pick up the phone, unwanted thoughts bomb you "Please, oh, please, just be alive"; if your cat sneezes, you immediately take her to a vet. -That's what hypersensitivity does. Every loss you experience, every wound you get, leaves a deep scar and takes double time and effort to make it heal and rejuvenate. And that's why you're terrified of new ones. Sometimes, I feel like all that pain and sorrow made me so scarred and deformed inside, that I'll never completely recover. I hope I explained better why I said I feel aged, and how I connected the feeling to my condition.
It gets better with medications and therapy. Finding the right combination is essential to keep you stable, but you have to choose a psychiatrist carefully. He has to be really competent. I prefer one educated both in biological psychiatry and psychotherapy (preferably, certified psychotherapist). And he has to be willing to experiment, because sometimes treatment doesn't work, it takes time and skill to adjust. It helps if the doctor stays updated with latest researches and doesn't use outdated methods. He also has to know how to approach you, especially if you're hypersensitive and socially anxious, so he must earn your trust. Mine is a college professor with Ph.D in biological psychiatry and cognitive therapy as a chosen therapy method, and I'm really satisfied with him. Researching your condition also helps, because you have to be able to recognize the symptoms, and realize what (and how) can you do to help yourself, and what (and when) you can't. It's better if you avoid popular psychology advice, or so called "self-help", because it can lead to self-deception. It's always better if you let a qualified, educated person evaluate your condition and help you with concrete carefully chosen advice and therapy. At least, such is my experience.
Quote: Originally posted by Babahara
We got acquainted when we were both into philosophy and esoteric topics, now I think all of that is meaningless abstract ruminations, and I can't listen to him doing it. But still it doesn't make me feel any older. It just makes me feel.. smarter? Like I've realized that such meaningless chatter isn't really smart, and it's more meaningful to be down-to-earth. |
Then I would've bored you to death. I don't consider philosophy meaningless, always was attracted to it, when I was younger as well. What I've noticed changed the most, are philosophical movements that interest me most. I'm talking about serious, documented, educational philosophy, not quasi-philosophy (also not a fan of new-age or esotericism). But I agree, most of it is abstract and not existentially applicable. You're absolutely right about being down-to-earth as the smartest approach to solving problems, and that is what science is for. Concretely, for problems we both share, it is a lot more useful to turn to medicine, psychiatry and psychology, than it is trying to apply classical philosophy on it. I do have a soft spot for humanistic sciences and read lots of it, but I hope I know how to make a difference between academic and practical interest.
I'm sorry for a lengthy post, but I thought you deserved a proper explanation.
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#279
11th Apr 2016 at 8:43 AM
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@MystAngel, I PMed you to avoid flooding the topic with not so lighthearted off-topic. Sorry if anyone was interested in the conversation!
#280
15th Feb 2017 at 12:56 PM
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I think I must have been sixteen or seventeen when a friend of mine in high school had a copy of The Sims 2 game and shared it with me, lol. I've been playing the game ever since. Now I'm 21 years old, and it felt like I have 'grown up' together with the game :')
#281
15th Feb 2017 at 1:47 PM
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I first played TS1 when I was six years old (I still remember that I was afraid of ghosts in Goth’s house and thought that plumbbob changes its colour with time ), now I’m not so far from finishing uni (1.5 years left), so I definitely do feel I grew up with the game.
#282
15th Feb 2017 at 2:07 PM
Posts: 578
Uhm I started playing Sims when I was like 11/12 (thanks to my schoolmates, I would play at them place or play on my computer when they would come and visit me), then I bought Sims 2 + University while I was 13... An since then I've never stopped playing. Now I'm almost 25 and, as some posted before, I grew up with the game. Actually, I have to thank the Italian community (now not active anymore) because through the game and later, the forums, I've learned lot of things not only about the game but also about life.
#283
15th Feb 2017 at 10:49 PM
Posts: 107
I was six when I got The Sims 2 Double Deluxe for Christmas 2010. I'm on my early teenage years.
I am the owner and streamer of Twitch Plays The Sims.
I am the owner and streamer of Twitch Plays The Sims.
#284
16th Feb 2017 at 12:08 AM
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I'm 50 - will turn 51 this summer - and have been a gamer since Pong, Space Invaders, and Centipede.
And I'm far from the oldest here.
And I'm far from the oldest here.
#285
16th Feb 2017 at 1:54 AM
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29 and practically throwing tantrums over the fact I turn 30 this year.
People tend to think I'm 15 or a boy who's really fat.
I am losing weight. It is taking some time.
Been playing entertainment and edutainment games since age 3.
Personal Quote: "I like my men like my sodas: tall boys." (Zevia has both 12 and 16 oz options)
(P.S. I'm about 5' (150cm) in height and easily scared)
People tend to think I'm 15 or a boy who's really fat.
I am losing weight. It is taking some time.
Been playing entertainment and edutainment games since age 3.
Personal Quote: "I like my men like my sodas: tall boys." (Zevia has both 12 and 16 oz options)
(P.S. I'm about 5' (150cm) in height and easily scared)
#286
16th Feb 2017 at 12:42 PM
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And I, in late February, will be 21. Yes, I am a student culinary college of Russia.
With Sims familiar with 5-6 years. It was at godmother away, and she was a game in the computing system, as I called her, "about men". (It was the Sims 1!). I was given to her to play Sims 2 (Sims 1 apparently did not trust). Later (I was already 9-10) we had a computer, and she gave us the Sims 2 (all the game asked my mom = D).
Now Sims 2 is my favorite. Of course sometimes I go to the Sims 3, (and even more rarely I go to the Sims 4), but this is not it.
And last summer downloaded Sims 1, how many remembered!
With Sims familiar with 5-6 years. It was at godmother away, and she was a game in the computing system, as I called her, "about men". (It was the Sims 1!). I was given to her to play Sims 2 (Sims 1 apparently did not trust). Later (I was already 9-10) we had a computer, and she gave us the Sims 2 (all the game asked my mom = D).
Now Sims 2 is my favorite. Of course sometimes I go to the Sims 3, (and even more rarely I go to the Sims 4), but this is not it.
And last summer downloaded Sims 1, how many remembered!
#287
16th Feb 2017 at 1:31 PM
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#288
16th Feb 2017 at 2:40 PM
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I was 3 years old when I played the sims (the original) around 2002 for the first time on a computer older than me (I still have it, but I have no idea if it still works). I'm 17 now, really close to 18 and I'm still playing the sims 1 and 2, because they have that "something" the sims 3 and 4 lack. Maybe I like them more because they are more naturally spontaneous compared to the last ones, and every time I try to go back to the game files I have in there I fall asleep. Some classmates in high school called me weird because I'm a simmer, but honestly, I couldn't care less about their opinions.
#289
16th Feb 2017 at 9:04 PM
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Started playing Sims1 --WHEN I RETIRED! Now I'm 73, still happily playing (mostly building) Sims2.
Stand up, speak out. Just not to me..
Stand up, speak out. Just not to me..
#290
17th Feb 2017 at 12:59 AM
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Happy birthday DJ!
I turned 28 on the 10th...I still feel *mentally* how I did when I was 15. And i'm sort of freaking out that this year is my 10 year anniversary graduation from High School. Like..how has it been a decade? It feels like it was last month XD
I was playing TS2 when I was a teenager and i'll continue playing it, on and off as I tend to do, for the rest of my life. <3
I turned 28 on the 10th...I still feel *mentally* how I did when I was 15. And i'm sort of freaking out that this year is my 10 year anniversary graduation from High School. Like..how has it been a decade? It feels like it was last month XD
I was playing TS2 when I was a teenager and i'll continue playing it, on and off as I tend to do, for the rest of my life. <3
#291
17th Feb 2017 at 5:03 PM
Posts: 45
Its been long time about sims 1 i played with my next door friend when i just in first year elementary school, and i replayed again in last 2 years until now i went to graduate from college. Playing sims 1 together with sims 2 since this two still give me private pleasure to design lot :D
Never thought about woman over 70 playing the sims ^_^
It can make record,haha
Quote: Originally posted by grammapat
Started playing Sims1 --WHEN I RETIRED! Now I'm 73, still happily playing (mostly building) Sims2. |
Never thought about woman over 70 playing the sims ^_^
It can make record,haha
#292
17th Feb 2017 at 5:19 PM
Quote: Originally posted by velvetina
I was 3 years old when I played the sims (the original) |
Quote: Originally posted by grammapat
Started playing Sims1 --WHEN I RETIRED! |
And this is why I love The Sims games so much. :lovestruc :lovestruc
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#293
17th Feb 2017 at 9:25 PM
I get very annoyed with I see videos/posts about people going, oh when I was young and played the sims. Meanwhile they look like fresh college graduates. (yeah you are still young) What is it with people thinking sims is a little kids game?! I'm in the 50+ bracket now and don't plan to give up anytime soon, even if I am currently playing Dragon Age Origins badly. We managed to buy it for $18! Also lets put down the idea that DAO and similar is only for young male players hmm, us older ladies know how to kick butt.
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#294
17th Feb 2017 at 9:48 PM
Quote: Originally posted by joandsarah77
What is it with people thinking sims is a little kids game?! |
It is a little kids' game. And a big kids' game. And an old kids' game...
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#295
17th Feb 2017 at 10:02 PM
Posts: 20
I have been a fan since I played on the PS2... I think the first game I had was Bustin' Out and I would have been about 11 or 12. I got Sims 2 around the time of Family Fun Stuff. I'm 24 next month. Not sure how much I've grown up since I first played though!
#296
17th Feb 2017 at 11:20 PM
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Quote: Originally posted by SuperSim64DS
I was six when I got The Sims 2 Double Deluxe for Christmas 2010. I'm on my early teenage years. |
I was 61 when I got The Sims 2 Double Deluxe in Autumn 2012. So, although I'm about five times your age, you've been playing for nearly two years longer than me! That it appeals to such wide range of people, is one of the things that makes this game so special.
In the terms of maxon's poll, I'm now looking for my slippers!
#297
19th Feb 2017 at 8:01 PM
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You were just on time with the birthday wishes, and I'm running a bit behind on the thank-yous. So, thanks, HarVee, Rosebine and wickedjr89! :D
DJ. who?
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#299
19th Feb 2017 at 9:07 PM
Posts: 32
I'm also 32!
I started playing ( a little) The Sims 1, well... in 2000 I think. My sister got it for Christmas and then my mother became addicted and bought every SP and EP for the Sims, The Sims 2 and The Sims 3. Back then we only had one computer for the family, so I didn't play The Sims very much. And even when I started playing The Sims 2 on my own laptop in 2005 or 2006, I mostly played on and off, with long period (months, years) off. So I thInk I didn't (don't) play that much. I haven't played since July I think.
I started playing ( a little) The Sims 1, well... in 2000 I think. My sister got it for Christmas and then my mother became addicted and bought every SP and EP for the Sims, The Sims 2 and The Sims 3. Back then we only had one computer for the family, so I didn't play The Sims very much. And even when I started playing The Sims 2 on my own laptop in 2005 or 2006, I mostly played on and off, with long period (months, years) off. So I thInk I didn't (don't) play that much. I haven't played since July I think.
#300
19th Feb 2017 at 9:25 PM
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I feel so old reading about posters who first played Sims 2 in preschool - I was in my mid-30s when I started with Sims 1! (I heard about it on r.a.t.s.a, a group for ABC soap operas - everyone seemed to be having great fun recreating their favorite soap opera towns.)
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