Ok, so I is borded...... so, I decided to start a new topic. What do you find attractive in the same (opposit?) sex? PG 13 comments ONLY please.
Ok, I'll start. I used to think I was supper shallow, but now, not so much. Like, I'll see a celeb, and think,
"Wow, he is so cute."
but then I'll read an artical about him, or see something he said that I dont agree with, and I'm compleetly unattracted to him after that. So, I like guys who are not ugly. They dont have to be beautiful, but just not absolutly ugly. LOL I dont have a high standard about looks. Like, if you see somebody you've never met before, obviously you're going to go on looks, because that's all you have. But after you get to know somone, it compleetly changes things. I've had that happen to me several times with a guy I though was hot that turned out to be an ass. On the flip side, Ive met a guy who I thought was compleetly unattractive, only to get to know him and develop a huge crush. So, for me personality is a huge part of if I'm attracted to somone or not.
As far as looks are concerned, I guess I could generalize enough to say I usualy like more butch guys. Like, not super butch, but I'm just not a fan of flamboyant guys. I honestly dont care if he's a little overweight. As long as he take pride in how he looks, and is clean. Dark hair is nice too. The problem is, I dont think I could make a sweeping statement about what I find attractive, because then I'll find an exception to the rule.
Anyways, that was way longer than I intended. So, what do you find attractive?
I never liked overweight guys. For me to be attracted to someone, they don't have to have a perfect body (I don't) but they shouldn't be overly noticeably fat. That's really my only hang up, I like all races, all hair colors, eye colors, ages, "types" (though I can't stand those stuck up fashion bois). I don't think I've seen a guy who wasn't fat and I was like thinking Ugly! pretty much all non-fat guys look good to me, though I guess he can be ugly if he has hardly any teeth or something
Also a guy can't be stupid. I mean you should have enough brains to carry on an intelligent conversation in IM. I had one guy trying to talk to me, I couldn't understand what he was saying because he wouldn't type like a literate person, amidst the inane babbling, he just kept saying you're hot. So I was like, um okay dude, your not my type, I like someone who is at least somewhat smart (I didn't want to use the word "intelligent" because he might not have known what it meant).
Haha, Wicked_Poppies, you posted this on my B-day! LOL. I always have to base things on looks first. One time, i saw a guy, talked to him, and than he tried to hit me! I found out he was an extreme homophobe, and i felt bad for him.... But i find honesty, charisma, modesty, VERY attractive. And, i dont like overwieght(as in, 20 or more pounds than average) because they tend to be a slob, and i hate being dirty! haha
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you know, i just don't notice people o.o, whenever I'm on the streets I'm on my happy world, my friends have been mad at me a lot of times because they talk to me & i don't notice XD, yup I'm a big daydreamer, I've been about to being run over a car more times that I can remember LOL, to me almost always it takes the other half to aproach me first, unless I find a boy interesting enough, what wicked say applies to me too, my boy needs to have a personality to start with, not just some follower, he needs to have things he loves because of himself, not because someone told him to, needs to have a sense of humor, and overall not to be a dramaqueen, I like simple guys a lot, I don't need anything extravagant, about looks he needs to be manly, and that's it.
I like bigger girls! skinny girls are just creeeepppppy!!!!!!
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He should just hurry up and marry me while we're both still young. He'll have to win a duel to the death with my current husband, but I don't see why that's stopping him.
I like most boys, but the thing that got me to fall for my husband was reading. We bonded drunkenly over James Baldwin's early novels, and within a month or two it was sealed. Must be five years last month. Our politics are similar, which also helps.
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I find a lot of different types attractive. My favorite would the dark haired guys with green eyes. That gets me every time I see on of them although they usually turn out to be absolutely asses. I find muscles attractive but don't require them. I could go for a nice compact, tight body or an overweight guy. It all depends on the personality I guess.
Is that Medusa in the background of the pic, to the left? lol I love that you refrance fine art. That's too awsome.... lol There is a lot going on in that picture! A sneeky looking little angel, and a peacock, and there seems to be a dude in the clouds to the left top.... and I'm not sure what's going on with the men and the women...... it looks like the guys are trying to solicite sex for an apple...... but that would never work on me.... They would have to offer me 3 to 5 apples, and they would have to be granny smith, or no deal. I have my standards, after all! lol Yeah, I know, that was so off topic!!!!
Well, first I want to say I'm not racist at all. (Thought that might be necessary.. some people assume so)
I like white guys mostly... as long as they're bigger than me muscle wise... (OMG NOT LIKE THAT... that's like a given) HAHA
Brown hair, at medium length is a plus, with deep blue eyes... *dies*
And they can't act too feminine... that's my job LMAO
But they have to be attractive on the inside to. If he's got it all going for him but his personality, then he's lost it all to me. A very positive, upbeat person who cares about important things in the world, like the ASPCA, starving children, going green, stuff like that, but without the whole activist part. I'd rather just donate the foundations money, and he should be the same... That's what I'm attracted to.
Saw this, and had too comment. For me, each guy is unique, and thus I find something attractive about each one. Generally, a cute smile goes over real well. I know a cute smile when I see one and it makes me want to get to know a guy. No, the teeth don't have to be perfectly white or straight or whatever; just cute. I also like guys with broad shoulders, big arms, and big ears. You'd be surprise how few guys there are in the world with big 'Floppy" ears. They are usually sexy.
I like white guys, but of course i'm not racist. I like em' thin but not like super bony. Like a "twink". I like guys who are cuddly and soft and gentle. I've also always had a thing for dark colored hair and green or blue eyes. As far as personality goes, I like a guy that can tell great jokes, but be serious when i need him to be. I also like guys that are gentle, but can also be a little rough and dominate.
my type of guy that i like, (im not racist) is a white guy, long haired (OMG a guy with black hair and blue eyes are defenitly one the types i love)
i like tham manly, not girly cause im the one who can be just a little girly, i like older guys from 2 - 7 older. i like muscle but not too much i like them thin but not to thin, i dont like them to be like with a belly, what i mean is a belly that weights 4 times more than him
hmm, it must be funny but not too funny that takes everything as a joke, i like them huggable... *coughes* kissable *coughes* erm... AND sweet
personality matters for me, cause i dont want the shy kinds, and i dont like the too open ypes i like them open but not too open shy but not reallly shy. if you know what i mean
so thats about it.. i guess :P
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hmm, i dunno. i like good personalities and see looks as a bonus. if i were to go for looks alone, i'd like somewhat subtly defined guys that almost borderline feminine. also i like very styled or well-kept hair and minimalist piercings (ears and maybe an eyebrow ring). bleached or colored hair is also interesting if done right. HUGE bonus points of you can pull off a cosplay very well
My man would be an Asian,with short black hair,and dark or tan skin,with a cute look to him,he can be skinny or muscular,he could be girly or manly. Personality-wise, I love guys who are happy-go-lucky like me,always have smiles on their faces,I love people who love to party,and I like guys who care about issues in the world,like somebody else already said.
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@Pdennis, I like chest hair too. A lot. *chest hair loving team*
As a bisexual, I don't look at the gender or at the appearance too much, but, if I had to pick something, I do tend to prefer dark-haired women, a little butch, if you may. At men, I don't know, I suppose I could say I love love love love tall, relatively short-haired, green-eyed guys. Personality-wise, I am a sucker for artists (writers, painters, singers), people with a good sense of humor and of sarcasm, who can be there for me to cuddle if the need might arise. They should also love animals, that's a must-have. If someone doesn't meet my appearance standards, it's perfectly fine, but if they don't meet either of my personality standards, that's too bad, I can't be with them.
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i'm leaning to sapiosexuality... intellect, quick wit, passion & sense of humor over looks. but of course there're qualities in appearance that make my knees a bit wobbly, i can put my finger on it only when i meet a certain person (maybe it's about interesting scar, strong hands, nice nose, sexy neck or irresistible smile).