I know a couple guys that are with women for show and sneak behind the woman's back to be with his man. I find it distasteful is every possible way because I don't think you should just use someone as a means to hide your true self from the world out of fear of being negatively judged-and that's woman or man.
Also, because your with a woman or man doesn't mean you aren't a homosexual...it means you're either confused or just mislead into believing that there is something wrong with you.
that's horrible. if they let the woman in on it, it'd be fine but why would someone play with their feelings like that? I don't know why they're so afraid to tell them because we women are generally more accepting of gays so it's unlikely that they would get a negative reaction and if it's the occasional woman that doesn't feel good about gays why did they get that woman, couldn't they use someone else as their beard?