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Testers Wanted: Ask About Relationship Status Interaction (Updated 12/3/2006)

by syberspunk Posted 24th Aug 2006 at 10:28 PM - Updated 3rd Dec 2006 at 12:30 PM by syberspunk : v3.00 - added new feature: ask to scope room and tweaked acceptance code
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Ask About Relationship Status v3.00 for TS2PETS v1.0p0
Made by: syberspunk

I made this hack because it was a great idea and I'm glad *I* thought of it! ;D

It complements my 'Go Steady for Adults' hack but they do not require each other i.e. they are separate hacks and can be used separately.

This hack is a new interaction under the Ask... menu that allows sims to ask non PC or visiting sims what their relationship status is. This option should only appear if the sim you click on is a visitor, townie, or NPC and the currently selected sim (that you are controlling) is not already Going Steady, Engaged, or Married to them (because obviously they should know who they are going steady, engaged, or married to :P).

The package contains two files, the controller and the interaction. You need BOTH files for this mod to work properly.

Added Feature for v3.00

Sims can now ask others to scope out the room. The other sim has to have a decent relationship before the option appears (STR >= 20). They also have to be a visiting sim and not in the same family household. I wanted this feature so I can sort of play cupid with my playable sims for townies/dormies/downtownies. I highly recommend using twojeffs ACR mod to enable autonomous casual romantic interactions. Now you can use all your influence points to get other sims to flirt with each other and the ACR mod should help things further along. ;D

I have also tweaked the acceptance code for the relationship status option. This part probably needs more testing. It now has a random chance of accepting, with a default chance of about 40-50% chance, and factors such as outgoing, nice, Mood, STR, and LTR potentially boosting those chances up to 100%. I also added a dialog message where, if the sim is in a poor mood, they will tell you, so you can try to ask again later when they are in a better mood.

Added Features for v2.00

As requested, I have added a couple of new features:

1) A new interaction for an Ask About Gender Preference option. I figured it was a pretty personal question, so I've tweaked the acceptance. More outgoing sims will be more open and willing to answer this. If the target is not very outgoing, then acceptance will depend on how nice they are and their mood, with a bit of randomness thrown in. Please report back if you find the acceptance to be too low. I'm open to suggestions. Also, responses may vary.
2) I have also added a feature to report the sims that the target has a crush on or is in love with. This will only happen if the target sim is single. This seemed natural to me because if you are in a committed relationship with the target sim, they most likely wouldn't tell you who Else they are in love with or have a crush with. That should most likely make you jealous, and I didn't want to try and program anything more complicated involving jealousy. Besides, it would only be a surprise if you don't keep track of all your sims prospects. And you could always ask Before you get into a committed relationship with them while they are single. I've also tweaked the acceptance for the relationship status slightly. So shy target sims are less likely to answer unless are nice and in a good mood or they have a decent LTR with the asking sim.

The acceptance and report messages are loosely open to suggestions. That is to say, I am amenable to perhaps changing them around if a lot of people feel they need to be tweaked, and it falls in line with my own thoughts, AND if I'm not too lazy to do it. :P
Oh, and I decided to call it 'Gender Preference' as opposed to 'Sexual Orientation' to sort of make it more family friendly. You can easily change these things yourself using SimPE and editing the appropriate TXT files.

These new features need testing once again, so please report back if you have any problems.

This has been tested in OFB/FFS and works fine. It probably will work for NL as well, but I am not sure if it will work for the basegame or Uni ONLY. Please carefully read the compatibility section below for further details.

Future Prospects:
I am sort of half-assed looking into the possibility of getting the speech bubbles to show the double hearts and double rings icons for going steady, engagement, and marriage. I'd also like it for the face/icon of the sim they are going steady, engaged, or married to show up as well. If I ever figure this out, I may update this hack in the future. For now, you will only see the dialog boxes.

This MUST be in your Downloads folder, typically found under:

C:\Documents and Settings\UserName\My Documents\EA GAMES\The Sims 2\Downloads


Note: I've tested this hack in OFB/FFS only, and it works fine so far. It should work for NL as well, however, since I basically cloned it from one of the existing Ask... options, I am unsure if it will work in the basegame or Uni ONLY. So if you are willing to test this out and report back if you ONLY have the basegame or Uni, please don't hesitate to provide feedback. I think it should work... but it uses some animations that were added in NL. I included the animation text file in the package, but I am not sure if that is sufficient for it to work in older games, or if something else needs to be added to make those animations available for older games, or if I will have to switch to animations that are available in all versions.

Please report back if you have problems.

This hack is compatible with most, if not all mods by MATY crew (Pescado, TJ, and CBoy), dizzy, and probably more. Again, up to you to help me determine any possible conflicts.

REMINDER and fine print (to cover my ass ) :
Remember to ALWAYS BACK UP YOUR DATA BEFORE INSTALLING NEW HACKS. By using this hack, you agree to absolve me of any responsibility or liability for any potential loss of or damage to your data. You have been warned.

HOW TO REPORT: Conflicts, problems, or errors
I would appreciate any constructive criticism and feedback that is actually helpful. With that in mind, it would be helpful, when reporting any conflicts or issues, that you include the following:

1) thorough but reasonably brief description of what you were doing
2) clear, comprehendible explanation of your problem
3) list of hacks that may be related to going steady or engagement/marriage
4) archived (.rar or .zip) of log produced by error

1) Open the cheat menu - Ctrl + Shift + C
2) Enable the debug mode - Type: boolprop testingcheatsenabled true
3) Hit Enter :P
4) Play as normal until an error occurs. If an error dialog box pops up, note the location of the error log and choose Reset. If the error pops up repeatedly, choose Delete and exit WITHOUT SAVING!
5) Post your error log here, preferably as a .zip or .rar archive.

Posts which do not include a clear description of what your problem is will be pretty much ignored. (i.e. posts such as "This does not work! I am taking it out! You suck! Nice try! etc.") I can't and won't help you if you don't explain what's wrong.

Please be nice when trying to explain your problem and I might be nice and help you.

:grouphug: Finally, my Thank Yous go to:

J.M. Pescado, twojeffs, dizzy2, and jase439 for being excellent tutors and providing excellent models in their mods. As always, thanks to those creators who've put out some excellent modding tutorials, Quaxi and co for SimPE, and dizzy2 for disaSim2, and the finally letters T and S, and the number 2, all of whom, without which this mod would not be possible.

Thanks to Avalika, but mostly thanks to myself for the great idea, glad *I* thought of it.

Thanks to curiousfire for providing the error logs with the bug in reporting crushes and loves.

If I left anyone out, I apologize in advance. You know who you are and you deserve my thanks.

Version History:
v2.00 - Added Ask About Gender Preference options and reporting crushes and loves for singles only.
v2.01 - Fixed Check tree primitive blocked completion error
v2.02 - Testing version with tweaked/lowered acceptance requirements for gender preference
v2.03 - Fixed bug in reporting crushes and loves

Here, the interactions show up under the Ask... menu.

As you can see at first, the sim reports that she is single.

After making her 'Go Steady' with another sim, I have the sister ask the same thing, and now she says who she is going steady with and their image shows up as well.

Here you see the sim reporting her gender preference.

Here is the option for Scope Room as it appears on the menu. My sim just asked a dormie to scope the room.

Here is the dormie scoping the room.

You must have the expansion or stuff packs listed below installed to use this custom content. Please see the post text for any exceptions.

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Basic Download and Install Instructions:

1. Download: Click the download link to save the .rar or .zip file(s) to your computer.

2. Extract the zip, rar, or 7z file.

3. Place in Downloads Folder: Cut and paste the .package file(s) into your Downloads folder:
  • Origin (Ultimate Collection): Users\(Current User Account)\Documents\EA Games\The Sims™ 2 Ultimate Collection\Downloads\
  • Non-Origin, Windows Vista/7/8/10: Users\(Current User Account)\Documents\EA Games\The Sims 2\Downloads\
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#2 Old 24th Aug 2006 at 10:32 PM Last edited by syberspunk : 1st Sep 2006 at 8:56 AM.

I may need to make a separate version for the Basegame/Uni. I'll wait to see if anyone is willing to try it out and report back, for those users who only have the basegame/Uni.

Edited: 9/1/2006

For now, this hack requires at least NL. It should work in your game if you have NL or later. It should also work if you only have OFB, or only FFS. Basically any game engine/version that is NL or later. I suspect that it will not work in the basegame or Uni versions only. When I find the time, I may make a compatible version.

Test Subject
#3 Old 24th Aug 2006 at 10:46 PM
OMG, this is awomme (first comment!) i hope this gets featured.
Lab Assistant
#4 Old 24th Aug 2006 at 10:47 PM
Great, I'm gonna try this! I have all ep's but not FFS. Thanks!

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Test Subject
#5 Old 24th Aug 2006 at 10:49 PM
Great mod, i'll be testing it now, will let you know if there is any trouble
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#6 Old 24th Aug 2006 at 10:56 PM
Very useful!!! Thanks

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#7 Old 24th Aug 2006 at 11:01 PM

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24th Aug 2006 at 11:21 PM
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#8 Old 24th Aug 2006 at 11:35 PM
Originally Posted by cute_british_chick
Great? Is there any jealousy? That would be really cool.

Not unless the Ask.../What's your Zodiac Sign? causes jealousy, which is what I cloned this from, and I don't think it causes jealousy. At least, I haven't seen it, but then again, I don't have any romantic rivals yet in my game. :shrug:

My guess tho, is that it won't, because afaik, the game should not consider it a romantic interaction. I currently have no plans to change this, as I kind of prefer it that way, since it's mostly meant to be informative. You still might get a rejection of the interaction depending on how good your relationship.

Lab Assistant
#9 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 12:41 AM
Thank you so effing much! This is something I wished they would have included in the Ask... dialogues from the beginning. I can never keep track of who all my bazillion sims are dating, and I end up with sims getting married to someone I had planned to set up with someone else... no more!!!! Thank you!

I have Base Game/Uni/NL but not OFB/FFS... I'll let you know if I have any problems. I'm going to try it out tonight!

Thanks again!
Test Subject
#10 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 1:13 AM
This is awesome!! How many relationships/families have I accidentally broken up because stupid me forgot... Thanks a bunch!
#11 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 1:18 AM
Great idea!

I made some mods for The Sims 1 -- yes, The Sims ONE :-) -- which you can find at
Test Subject
#12 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 1:49 AM
Awesome!! I have basegame/uni/NL so i'll try it out tonight!
Lab Assistant
#13 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 2:09 AM
I ran Paladin's Hack Conflict Detection Utility with my over 200+ hacks and this didn't conflict with anything including InTeen, so I think it's fairly safe!

Top Secret Researcher
#14 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 3:09 AM
Another great mod and I agree you did come up with a excellent idea. Thank you for all the useful mods I have of yours, and being thoughtful to what we need.
Test Subject
#15 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 3:39 AM
thank you! the other one i've been asking for, for over a year. You rock.
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#16 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 4:59 AM Last edited by carlydunham : 25th Aug 2006 at 5:13 AM.
does this work ok with the inteen?
#17 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 6:10 AM
WOW! This is a very cute idea! I love it! Thank you for coming up with such wounderful hacks
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Lab Assistant
#18 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 6:57 AM
This is awesome!! Great job Syber!!
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#19 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 10:21 AM
Thanks all, for the praise. I appreciate it.

Originally Posted by carlydunham
does this work ok with the inteen?

Off hand, I would say yes, they are compatible, but only because Bain reported that a hack scan reveals no known conflicts. hehe. But just thinking about it, I can't imagine any potential conflicts with InTeen. As I said, this hack should not be considered a romantic interaction anyways. It basically just adds a new interaction altogether. It shouldn't overwrite anything that exists in the game. The only way I can think that it might conflict with something if someone just randomly tried to use the same GUID as me... but why they would be using a GUID that should be in my assigned set, I don't know. :P

PS. I'm now pretty sure that it probably will not work in the basegame or Uni only. If I ever get around to it... I may make basegame/Uni compatible version.

I'm also considering adding options to list crushes and loves. That is, for those sims who are not in a committed relationship... at least they will tell you who they have crushes on or who they are in love with. I think that might be useful for players with large neighborhoods with an overwhelming amount of sims.

Test Subject
#20 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 2:10 PM
Thank you for this great hack! I was hoping someone would make this hack. Everytime my single sims visited a house, they didn't know whom was single and whom wasn"t. Now they will. I have NL and it works great for teens and Adults.
Lab Assistant
#21 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 3:51 PM
Originally Posted by syberspunk
I'm also considering adding options to list crushes and loves. That is, for those sims who are not in a committed relationship... at least they will tell you who they have crushes on or who they are in love with. I think that might be useful for players with large neighborhoods with an overwhelming amount of sims.

That would be great. My neighborhood is huge, and I'm always losing track of everyone's romantic exploits.

Of course, for female sims, you'd need a default dialog that says: "I've got a crush on Sim X and Johnny Depp." ...
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#22 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 4:28 PM
yay this is so good! what a great idea :D

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#23 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 5:15 PM
What a brilliant mod, thanks and I agree with piano_man969, I too hope it gets featured.

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#24 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 6:51 PM
Just Amazing
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#25 Old 25th Aug 2006 at 9:47 PM
Amazing thanks so much

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