Now I seen this and they have a bunch of cc that I want to download that look historical and even lot like the cafe and store but it won’t let me download them I have to donate. Now everyone will just say to use the booty but for some reason it not working for me so where can I find her stuff for free

Simscave has some of Vitasims' items, likely both free and donatio (they're in different sections). The site requires login for the download sections, though: http://simscave.mustbedestroyed.org/index.php (not logged in atm, so no direct link)

Booty site is here:
http://paysites.mustbedestroyed.org/booty/ts2/vitasims/

Both sites are currently working for me. If you're having issues with them loading, it could be your browser. They're old sites and don't have HTTPS, so you likely need to (temporarily) turn off "only HTTPS mode" if your browser has this active (Firefox has this option, no idea about others).

Ok it probably me I have window 11

It's likely a browser issue (Firefox, Chrome, Edge, or whichever other browser you open up to view web pages), not operating system (Windows).

It's an Antivirus issue for me. Make sure that your Antivirus isn't blocking http sites.