Essentially what I'm looking for is a way to enable to the butler interactions "Ask to Cook" and "Ask to Clean" for non-butler Sims, or just any mod that lets you have this kind of command. You know like how in The Sims 2 you could 'Influence' others to do chores? Something along those lines.

I like... vaguely recall seeing this once in my game? I assumed it was a part of the base game or one of the EPs but I couldn't find any mention of it online and the option doesn't seem to pop up in my interactions now that I'm looking for it. Maybe it was a mod. I hope so, because otherwise I've made it up.

Failing that, are the any other mods that let you treat a household member like a butler? The butler NPC just doesn't seem to work very well in my game - they immediately start swimming in my pool, and then silently resign from my service within minutes of arriving prompting another one to arrive just to start the cycle all over again. Obviously I can make this work in a user directed kind of way but I'd like something that makes them autonomously act like a servant rather than a family member, so that I don't have to micromanage.

Okay! So! I did find ‘Ask to Cook’ under the Friendly interactions which is a great start.

It seems the only way that a Sim can ask another Sim to clean is if they themselves (the one requesting that the house be cleaned) have the Neat trait. Which is good but ideally I want the ‘butler’ Sim to be the Neat one and the the other members of the household to NOT have that trait.

So maybe there’s an all encompassing mod that unlocks trait specific interactions for everybody? If anybody has heard of such a thing please let me know, my search has come up with nothing.

Chef Service - v1.7
https://modthesims.info/d/495287/ch...h-may-2014.html

Housekeeper Service - v1.2
https://modthesims.info/d/525367/ho...h-dec-2014.html

Thank you <3