Might you consider Downtownies
Ravi Bertino (Patrick Teens in the game files) and
Berjes Wilsonoff (Nolan Kosmakos in the game files)? Of course I know them by the names they have in my game. They're both teens when the game starts, and they're still teens in my game because I play teens for forever and a day, but I'm sure they
can grow up. They're both gay in my game, but I'm also sure they don't have to be.
Ravi (Patrick) is the illegitimate son of Jon Smith Tricou. He is Virgo/Pleasure but I gave him 5 extra Nice points so he could take part in an "open" relationship under the terms of Pescado's
Romance Mod. It turned him into one of the most considerate characters in my game -- a Pleasure Sim who loves to give pleasure to others. He's the sort of person who likes to brighten up the day of everyone he meets. I don't think I've ever seen him treat another Sim in a mean way. If I have any criticism of him, it might be that his wish to please others might extend to getting into bed with almost anyone who asks him. So, as potential husband material? Ravi is Jack Gill's live-in boyfriend. Ravi truly loves Jack, and Jack loves him in return, but Jack is promiscuous in his love, and Ravi has the very unusual good sense not to try to change Jack into something he's not. So, when Ravi makes out with other boys, he knows it's something that Jack wants him to do. Jack would feel hemmed in if he thought Ravi wanted an exclusive relationship. I think in his heart he'd like his relationship with Jack to be more monogamous and conventional, but he's never going to jeopardise what he's got. It's good to feel loved and wanted. I know I
ought to love all my Sims equally (Sims are like children aren't they?), but I'm afraid that Ravi will always be a bit of a favourite.
Dark skinned Berjes (Nolan) is Knowledge/Pisces. He has the edge on Ravi in looks, so that could certainly be a consideration in choosing a husband. He has seven Nice points, but in my game he sometimes seems to have a bit of a chip on his shoulder. He would retort that he has ample reason to feel like that as other Sims have messed up his life. His love life has certainly not been straightforward; he definitely doesn't want the sort of open relationship that Ravi has, but was unfortunate enough to get entangled with a Sim who did (my CAS Romance teen, Gordon Cornton). He was in love with Gordon and was devastated when he found out that Gordon was regularly making out with half the boys in the neighbourhood. He then formed a relationship with Veronaville townie Amar Larrea (Family/Aquarius), but Amar had also become entangled with the same Gordon Cornton, and it took a long time till Amar clearly saw that Berjes was right for him and there was no real future with Gordon. I hope they will now settle down to a steady relationship and that Berjes may finally start to lose that chip on his shoulder. As adults, he and Amar may well marry and adopt children. With his 7 Nice points and good looks, Berjes should really be quite a desirable catch.
Well I've gone on a bit (as usual) but I hope I might persuade you to look again at these two young men, whom you may have overlooked on account of their youth.