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There was an autonomous interactions mod created by weebl 101 but hasn't been updated since Jan 2016. Click HERE for their mod. I didn't want to go through updating the whole mod. I mostly hated the fact that my sim had to always do the proposing. Where's the surprise in that? Anyway I also absolutely hated that giddy interaction that always took place after an acceptance of the proposal.
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Teen/Adult Romance has been moved to HERE
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Out of respect to me and any other modder you should not change something in their mod and upload it for others to download. It takes time on a mod regardless if its a core mod, script mod or just and XML mod. With all my mods so far, it takes time to go through the files, find what ones you want, decided where you want them, get them placed, make the necessary code changes, add new codes, and collect all of the loose ends to make even a XML mod to work properly. Plus with all mods regardless of their type, you have to test it, test test test over and over just to make sure you have all your codes in a row. Some of mine have enough code changes that I had to do a lot of trial and error just to find what ones I preferred and some had extra files that had to be tended to as well. So again: It is disrespectful, and hurtful to make even a small change in one code in any mod and upload for others to use.
Full Polygamy if you include my Autonomous Weddings found HERE
Last Update: 11/11/24<--Check for new add-ons or changes! Always remove old files and replace with new!
11/11/24 Change Log: PATCH UPDATE: 11/7/24 STRINGS REMOVED: See strings in description for more info REMOVED: No Romance Proposals - See description below for more info
3/11/24 Change Log: PATCH UPDATE: to Proposals - Trait Blacklisted STRINGS ADDED French strings to Breakups
7/5/21 Change Log: All translations are added based on the order of submission ADDED: Swedish Translation by: Nighthaven29 ADDED: Italian Translation by: PaigeSims05 ADDED: Russian Translation by: Alena_Iya ADDED: Finnish Translation by: Nenni ADDED: Czech Translation by: Danty777 ADDED: Dutch Translation by: Pallies656602
2/20/21 Change Log: FIXED: Proposals with changed animations have been fixed. They deleted the shy kiss animation which broke the wedding proposal and the bloom festival proposal.
4/12/20 Change Log: FIXED: Ask to be BF/GF should appear as intended for No Romance Proposals FIXED: Proposal for No Romance Proposals should only appear after you are BF/GF ADDED: Spanish Translation by: Lorzo2341 ADDED: Polish Translation by: OnlyBroken ADDED: Chinese Translation by: GreenOnionC
1/17/20 Change Log: PATCH UPDATE ADDED: French Translation by: sora ADDED: Portuguese Translation by: yas1
12/15/19 Change Log: ADDED: German Strings by Lösser-Föffel
12/14/19 Change Log: Patch Update: 12/12/19 ADDED: Dialog box is BACK! Strings needing translations are below
12/1/19 Change Log: Patch Update 11/25/19
9/8/19 Change Log: Patch Update: 9/5/19
6/23/19 Change Log: Patch Update: 6/18/19
11/14/18 Change Log: Patch Update: 11/13/18 REQUESTED: Increased the chances of a proposal by a little. Let me know if it's to much.
Patch Update: 6/19/18 FIXED: Children should not be asking to just be friends anymore or any other sim to a stranger. I did some tests and it was working as it's intended. REMOVED: Proposal Dialog pop up. I had to remove this because the custom strings are not working. I'm not an expert with strings so I'm not sure what is wrong. Once I figure it out I will put the dialog box back in.
05/19/18 Change Log: ADDED: Pop Up Dialog box to ask the user if they would like to accept a proposal.<--WIP FIXED: Breakups should appear when a relationship reaches Romantic Interests or lower.
04/1/18 Change Log: REQUESTED: No Polygamy read spoiler for details REMOVED: The packs that combined break ups. I did this to help eliminate extra files in the download page and for less when it comes to updating.
02/23/18 Change Log: ADDED: New traits and category tags were added for the Jungle Adventure pack. These are not required for the mod to work, I just added them for those who purchase the pack.
11/26/17 Change Log: FIXED: Exchange Promise Rings for NO GIDDY Flavors. At this time I do not know why the custom responses were causing this interaction to break but for now I have removed them. As of now, there is no responses. There still is NO Giddy. If I figure out a new way to write these in I will update them with the new responses.
11/10/17 Change Log: FIXED: Ask to be Girlfriend "No Giddy" in all flavors
11/07/17 Change Log: Patch Update: 11/07/17 ADDED: Teen/Adult Romance FIXED: All proposals with No Giddy~The custom responses have been fixed! FIXED: No Romance Proposals~Some still had romance, that is now removed. MOVED: Autonomous Kiss has been moved to its own page since its not a proposal~This will be uploaded soon! ADDED: Can give promise rings to more than one sim
10/22/17 Change Log: CHANGED: Made a small increase to the likelihood of the proposal interaction to appear in the pie menu. In some cases this will help it to be chosen autonomously. No Romance flavor was not changed.
8/2/17 Change Log: UPDATE: Patch 7/18/17 FIXED: All Break Ups!<--Every time a patch breaks this I have to write it in differently, come on EA lol I apologize to those of you who couldn't break up FIXED: Proposals-The update broke one actor from proposing. This is now fixed! FIXED: Proposal Animations-I was able to fix all but 2 animation. At this time if the female proposes, their bodies will be strange. I'm not sure why and it may be from the newest update. I will continue to think on how to fix this. REQUESTED: Raised the bar on when you can break up. Now Romantic Interest and lower can break up. See below for details.
6/15/17 Change Log:
UPDATE: Patch 6/15/17 Something again in the patch broke the breakups, those are fixed.
5/29/17 Change Log: FIXED: Something in the new parent patch caused a problem with my codes with the break up portion of the mod. This is now fixed. ADDED: Now all proposals at the Bloom Festival will no longer have job restriction. ADDED: Polygamy is now possible with the Bloom Festival Proposal.
5/27/17 Change Log: FIXED: I accidentally packaged Proposals & Breakups with the special interactions wrong when I did the update. I have corrected this. So if you downloaded the new version from the patch and they did the giddy please download the new one Again, I apologize for the inconvenience.
5/25/17 Change Log: UPDATE: Patch 5/25/17
5/24/17 Change Log: FIXED: Sims will no longer break up with the sim the cheated with. FIXED: Animations for all Proposals with changed animations have been fixed.
5/21/17 Change Log: CHANGED: There was report that breakups were happening to often and easily just because of an angry sim. Now all Ask to be Friends, Breakups, and Divorces have a relationship requirement of Awkward and lower.
5/20/17 Change Log: FIXED: Ask to Be Just Friends is working again. I apologize for that option not being available.
5/17/17 Change Log: Sorry for another update so close to the last. ADDED: Now you can have a spouse and a fiance or more than one spouse! What ever your simmies heart desires
*Use my Autonomous Wedding Mod if you want to get married to more than one spouse.*
5/16/17 Change Log: FIXED: No longer will the Propose option be greyed out because of a job situation ADDED: Now you can have multiple Engagements!
5/12/17 Change Log: CHANGED: All Break up files have been adjusted on how often and why a sim will break up. Changes listed below
5/3/17 Change Log: CHANGED: No Romance Proposal Flavors no longer add Romantic Relationships.
5/2/17 Change Log: REQUESTED: Got a request for 2 new flavors. See below for more info.
4/30/17 Change Log: CHANGED: Certain traits will now effect if the certain sims propose or break up. See below for more info.
4/19/17 Change Log: REQUESTED: All proposal files now include the "First Kiss" to be autonomous and I have also increased the odds of it occuring just like the other proposals.
4/18/17 Change Log: CHANGED: Changed the mod file name to have no spaces
3/29/17 Change Log: ADDED: Exchange Promise Rings for Teens has been added to all the proposal flavors. Increased the likely hood of it happening autonomously as well. <--Just discovered this existed!
3/28/17 Change Log: REQUESTED: Ask to just be Friends will now show up in the Mean menu. Now that it is in the mean menu it should also be more likely to happen autonomously.
3/24/17 Change Log: REQUESTED: Added new flavors. Same as before but this time with the original giddy interactions.
3/20/17 Change Log: FIXED: Asking to be a boyfriend/girlfriend will now happen autonomously! NEW: There has been several changes to how the sim chooses on if they are going to propose!
3/16/17 Change Log: Added: 2 Flavors. One having autonomous proposals & breakups and the other just autonomous breakups
A special THANK YOU!!! to Scumbumbo for telling me how to create new XML's to add to the game. With out this knowledge, I would not of been able to create a file for No Polygamy.
A special THANK YOU goes out to fellow simmer: jjrmich<--Thank you for your suggestions and help towards getting this mod to do these interactions more autonomously and during appropriate conversations.
A request came through earlier for breakups and gave me ideas so I went for it! Thank you for the request fellow simmer: katiardguez!
What this mod offers: This will also show any new ideas I may be working on for future updates.
No Polygamy Proposal Option
Autonomous Proposals
Autonomous Breakups & Divorces
No restrictions on marriage
Polygamous relationships
NPC's proposing
An option to have relationships with no restrictions or relationship gain
Have proposing with or with out the giddy interactions.
Personality for Proposals
Currently Translations:
ENGLISH
GERMAN by Lösser-Föffel
FRENCH by: sora
PORTUGUESE by: yas1
SPANISH by: Lorzo2341
POLISH by: OnlyBroken
CHINESE by: GreenOnionC
DANISH by: Ceci4323
SWEDISH by: Nighthaven29
ITALIAN by: PaigeSims05
RUSSIAN by: Alena_Iya
FINNISH by: Nenni
CZECH by: Danty777
DUTCH by: Pallies656602
NORWEGIAN by: Sukkerspinn1
FRENCH for Breakups by: braville
Want to translate for another language? Post the string in English and then in the language you are translating it for and I will get the translation added to the mod!
Proposal Strings:
EA has added their own autonomous romantic partners(bf/gf) along with a dialog box for this interaction so I have removed my strings and dialog box to this interaction.
Yes! Yes I do!
No! This isn't going to work.
{0.SimName} loves you very much and would like to spend their life with you. Do you accept?
{0.SimName} promises to love you forever! Do you accept? {0.SimName} would like you to be their boyfriend. Do you accept?
Sure! Let's give this a try.
I'm sorry, I just don't feel the same as you.
{0.SimName} would like you to be their girlfriend. Do you accept?
Breakup Strings:
{0.SimName} feels this marriage has failed, do you agree?
I agree, we were obviously wrong for each other.
No! We were made for each other let's try to fix it.
{0.SimName} would like to break up and see other sims
I feel the same way. It's time to move on.
No, I want to try to fix our relationship.
{0.SimName} wants to be just friends
Yes, that would be for the best.
No, I'm sure we can make this work.
About the dialog box:NEW BreakUp Dialog Box
When a sim proposes a pop up dialog box will appear. A small message will pop up letting you know what kind of proposal this is, ask to go steady, wedding proposal, exchange promise rings or a blossom festival proposal. You will then have 2 options, to decline or accept. Currently if you decline, just like vampires offering to turn, it will NOT continue to the declining animation. This is something I would like to get figured out and have occur in the future. However, even if you click accept, it is still possible the sim will decline, this is also something I would like to change.
This was tested with sims who lived in my current household along with just playing the game as normal. The dialog box appeared even if a different sim was active along with an NPC asking my sim. I am unsure if this box will appear on an NPC asking another NPC.
NEWBreakUp Dialog Box!
Now, when a sim wants to break up with your sim or your sim suddenly wants to break up with another sim without you directing the breakup, a box will appear on your screen. This box will tell you what sim initiated the breakup and give you the option to agree with the breakup or give it a try to fix the relationship. This box works the same way as the Proposal Dialog Box.
WIP!<--How this mod works. Please read
Do to the large changes happening with autonomy and the traits, moods and conversation atmosphere, this may take a few adjustments to get it just right.
I would like you to let me know, since everyone plays differently, how does it seem to work for you? Are they progressing to fast? to slow? Not at all? Do they seem to spontaneous? Are they proposing or breaking up, divorcing based on their moods, or conversation? Are the traits effecting how often or hard it is for proposals/breakups? Your feedback will help make this mod better!
I went through and chose certain traits to either increase or decrease the odds of proposals or breakups. Certain traits do NOT gaurantee a proposal or breakup, just helps with the odds. If there is a trait that you want that is not on the lists below, leave a comment with the trait in question along with an explaination on why you think it should be added. If I agree with your explaination then there is a possibility it will be added but no gaurantees.[/I] [I]Here are the traits that are affected: Proposals:
Squeamish
Jealous
Unflirty
Commitment Issues
Evil
Family Oriented
Hot Headed
Insane
Mean
Romantic
Good
Loner
Snob
Changes with this mod that will effect how your sims act when it comes to proposals and breakups: Proposals: The more romantic your sims conversation gets, the higher the odds of either sim proposing to the other. An inspired sim may proposal from feeling inspired in their life but it is more likely a flirty sim will propose. If their conversation isn't going very well they probably won't propose. you will need to get them flirty. The higher it gets the greater the odds. Example: an amorous conversation is less likely to propose than a suggestive conversation. Steamy conversations have a greater change to propose.
Breakups:In order from a sim to ask to be friends, break up or divorce the romantic relationship needs to be Romantic Interest or lower before the traits, moods or conversation setting will possibly autonomously occur. If you your relationship is Romantic interest you will have two options: Break Up or Ask to be friends. If your relationship drops below that, only Break up will be the option. Breakups including just asking to be friends may happen depending on the sims mood. If they are angry and just down right ticked off, maybe your sim should try to calm them down and help them recover from what is going on in their life because if you don't, they could be so angry at life all together that they don't even want to be in a relationship with your sim! If your relationship puts the other sim into a bored mood or uncomfortable mood they may break it off with you. Don't worry, if they are happy or flirty or just in a good mood your should be fine. Other things that will effect the breakup will be your conversation atmosphere. What I mean by that is, if your conversation because awkward they may break up with you. An offensive conversation is more likely to breakup with you than a distastefull. If your conversation is going good than you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
This is strongly based on the relationship panel in the game. If it doesn't say romantic interest or lower or still says love birds even if they are in the romantic red this option may not work properly. I'm still working on getting this more reliable. The relationship panel not updating properly isn't because of this mod but is in the game itself. I apologize for any inconvenience.
Traits: different traits effect whether or not a sim is likely to propose. Since traits in this game make romantic and flirty sims flirty easier or just from lack of romance they are more likely to propose and less likely to break up, that is unless you really tick off one of these romantic sims. Sims who are hotheaded or mean tend to be in a bad mood anyway and may use mean interactions that change their mood or conversation and may break up with you and are less likely to propose.
Doing your best to keep moods and conversations along with their romantic relationship level where you want them should resault in one of the interactions.
So what does this mod do?
Now your sim no longer needs to ask for another sim to be boyfriend/girlfriend if you don't want them to!
No more weird proposal<--They will now whisper romantically into the other sims ear. Be careful! They can still reject!
No more giddy!<--Now they will instead do something a little more romantic! The guy will Kiss the girls hands and the girl will Kiss the guys cheek! awww so sweet!
~I chose romantic interactions that weren't quite so intimate since at this stage your sim is just getting to know the other and just getting started on their relationship!~
Now your sim does not have to do the proposing if you don't want them to!
No more giddy! <--If they aren't doing that then what are they doing, you ask? Well instead they will do a few different things depending on the proposal and of course if it succeeds. Here are the possible possibilities! *Carass Cheek* *Dip Kiss*<--I think that is the passionate kiss<--Sometimes this animation acts funny. Don't know the cause, most of the time it is fine, occasionally it acts up. Crazy simmies!<--Removed *Shy Kiss* *Whisper Nothings* Still 2 animations when the girl proposes will look a little weird, still working on that one. However, if the guy proposes, all animations should be fixed.
No longer have job restrictions on any proposals.
Romantic Interest and lower relationships now show the ask to be friends, break up, or divorce interaction in the pie menu. It will not be there if their romantic levels aren't low enough. It needs to be either no romantic bar or lower before the option is available. Once it is available then the possibility of it happening autonomous will take place. Romantic Interest will have the option to either Break Up or Ask to be Friends. If your relationship is lower than a Romantic Interest then you will only have the option of Break Up.
Common Questions:
Why is it when the girl proposes, their arms do weird stuff to themselves? Those are fixed now, if your sims are doing this maybe you need to update to the newest version.
I want my sims to break up but the option isn't in the pie menu. What happened to it? Any Ask to be Friends, Break ups, or Divorces now require Romantic Interest or Lower
I don't want my sims to have a bad friendship when they break up. Don't worry, you don't need a bad friendship to break up. They can still be best friends. Just need the romantic levels to go in the red.
"My sims are in a steamy conversation. Why hasn't the other proposed!" Lots of factors now determine if a sim proposes. Check above under WIP on how this mod works.
"Its been a long time why have they still not proposed?" Even though the interactions have a greater chance of the proposal doesn't mean it will happen. Check the sims mood, the conversation, and traits, these contribute to the sim proposing.
What does the Autonomous Breakups! Offer? Now any sim could autonomously break up, divorce or ask to just be friends.
Will my active sim autonomously breakup? Yes
Do my sims have to be in a bad relationship? Not exactly. Romantic Interest or lower could cause a break up or Ask to be friends. However, a bad mood, conversation or traits will increase the chances of this happening.
Will NPC's autonomously break up? Yes
Why does my sim seem to be crying more after the breakup? I added more crying interactions to the files. So don't be surprised if they shove their faces into their hands and cry more. Or the target sim actually cries and wipes the tears off of their face
Add-On's<--Can be added to any of the flavors listed below:
NEW! No Polygamy
MUST have updated version~04/01/18 proposal mod for this to work.
With this added, your sims will NOT be able to propose if another sim or the sim proposing is already married or engaged or promised.
Break Ups
This is now separate from any of the proposal flavors. If you choose to have proposals and break ups, all you have to do is choose what proposal flavor below that you want and add in the Break Up Add-On.
What this Add -On does is allows any sim to break up with any sim. That includes an NPC breaking up with an active sim autonomously. This is, however, restricted. Meaning, sims can't just break up just to break up. They need to have a really low or bad romance level before the break up option appears. I plan on adding in the future that will allow a sim who has discovered their significant other cheating to be able to break up regardless of the romance levels.
This does use several factors on determining if a sim breaks up or not. These include, their relationship, their mood, traits, and the current conversation they are having with that sim.
I created more flavors. That way you have the option for your way of playing. Flavors:<--ONLY USE ONE FLAVOR! There WILL be a conflict since some change the interactions and others do not. 2 FLAVORS REMOVED
Autonomous Proposals~Only proposals
Autonomous Proposal w Original Interactions~Same as the others just with the giddy interaction
No Romance Proposals<--Not AutonomousREMOVED
Since EA is no longer going to be retiring Sims 4, in order for me to be able to continue to support my mods, I've had to make some changes to the size of some of my mods. This one happens to be one of the larger mods due to the fact that it duplicates six interactions for each flavor. This one will no longer be available for download. My dearest apologies.
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Autonomous Proposals!
Works with Patch 6/6/24 <--No Changes needed
